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dress: Free People
vest: thrifted at Salvation Army
vintage ESPRIT hiking boots: free from mom
‘Smart women thirst for knowledge’ mug: gift from Rachel <3
I’ve been having a lot of familiar encounters with outfits, feelings, people, and places, which doesn’t happen too often here. It’s good and I’m not sure how long I should expect it to last… but I am glad this old dress is still one of my favorites 5 years later, and I am especially glad for everyone crawling out of the woodwork, myself included. Now behold one of very few outfit photos taken inside, wearing something I’ve worn many times before.
  • dress: Free People
  • vest: thrifted at Salvation Army
  • vintage ESPRIT hiking boots: free from mom
  • ‘Smart women thirst for knowledge’ mug: gift from Rachel <3

I’ve been having a lot of familiar encounters with outfits, feelings, people, and places, which doesn’t happen too often here. It’s good and I’m not sure how long I should expect it to last… but I am glad this old dress is still one of my favorites 5 years later, and I am especially glad for everyone crawling out of the woodwork, myself included. Now behold one of very few outfit photos taken inside, wearing something I’ve worn many times before.

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  • vintage 1960s silk floral dress: thrifted at Eons Fashion Antique (Pittsburgh)
  • neon sunglasses: c/o Quay Eyewear
  • Jeffery Campbell sandals: MiniMarket (Williamsburg)
  • NARS semi matte lipstick in ‘Jungle Red’

I was born! Outfit photos were taken! TRIUMPH! Friends visited from far and wide: Manhattan, Queens, and Philadelphia… and we congregated in my back yard for A Very Nice Time Acting Totally Normal.

So now I’m more of an adult than ever (age 26) and I’m not having any revelations this morning other than being supremely grateful for the 3-day-old bagel I just toasted up and ate with reckless abandon. I’m stoked my friend is visiting from Montreal this weekend, I’m stoked to be going to the Apollo for the first time this week (Charles Bradley!), and I’m stoked it’s finally FINALLY bike weather. No complaints, just florals.

I guess it just annoys me when people talk about the fattening foods they eat and are like “I’M SUCH A FAT KID. I’M AN OBESE PERSON.” Because it’s like, hi, you’re not. You’re the opposite. Imagine if someone who was morbidly obese did tweet about their ice cream sundae and say something like, “I’m SUCH a fat kid.” There would be crickets on the Internet. A tumbleweed would run through their Twitter. For someone who’s fat, their relationship with food is more private and shame-based. But if you’re thin, you can flaunt it without judgement.

G R I M E S: I don't want to have to compromise my morals in order to make a living

actuallygrimes:

i dont want my words to be taken out of context

i dont want to be infantilized because i refuse to be sexualized

i dont want to be molested at shows or on the street by people who perceive me as an object that exists for their personal satisfaction

i dont want to live in a world where…

Debated putting this on Broadist for a few days, but ultimately decided that I (Caroline) needed to, as it is directly relevant to everything in my life as a lady in the music industry. So here you go. And thanks, Grimes.

  • sheer green top: Target (circa 3 years ago)
  • cardigan: American Apparel
  • high waisted shorts: cutoff from BDG jeans on sale at Urban Outfitters (they were $6 [from $58] - FYI the sales are insane right now).
  • shades: c/o Quay eyewear and Bollare
  • vintage ESPRIT hiking boots: gift from mom
  • backpack: Urban Outfitters sale
  • dog: totally belongs to Nicolette

I am having that Sunday afternoon moment that begs the question “WHAT DID I EVEN DO FOR THE PAST 48 HOURS?!” Seriously, what did I do? On Friday I ate a cupcake and gave my roommate fake knuckle tats. Yesterday I baked corn muffins, then I hung out with Alex who was dog-sitting Francoise the pug. Today I went to Bed Bath and Beyond, which is my actual favorite store in the world. I bought rainbow straws and mouthwash.

I am officially The Most Boring Person With A Blog. Help meeeee.

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  • Kate Nash Girl Talk crop top: c/o Kate Nash friendz
  • black mini dress (whoops, I shrunk it): Urban Outfitters
  • black oxfords: thrifted at Crossroads Trading Co
  • HUE tights: gift from Mom
  • neon shades: c/o Quay Eyewear / Bollare

fun fact: this is what taking outfit photos with me is actually like.

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Kate Nash Girl Talk crop top: c/o Kate Nash friendz
black mini dress (whoops, I shrunk it): Urban Outfitters
black oxfords: thrifted at Crossroads Trading Co
HUE tights: gift from Mom
neon shades: c/o Quay Eyewear / Bollare
This morning I awoke early to glorious sunshine and Rae (former roommate) at my door, so we went on an adventure to Williamsburg (ie: take her dog [Olive] to the groomer). Nothing really opens before 11am in Williamsburg, so we just got bagels and took silly photos. The above result is what I like to refer to as a &#8220;hurray, Brooklyn&#8221; pic. Hope you&#8217;re in similar spirits today. Go outside!
  • Kate Nash Girl Talk crop top: c/o Kate Nash friendz
  • black mini dress (whoops, I shrunk it): Urban Outfitters
  • black oxfords: thrifted at Crossroads Trading Co
  • HUE tights: gift from Mom
  • neon shades: c/o Quay Eyewear / Bollare

This morning I awoke early to glorious sunshine and Rae (former roommate) at my door, so we went on an adventure to Williamsburg (ie: take her dog [Olive] to the groomer). Nothing really opens before 11am in Williamsburg, so we just got bagels and took silly photos. The above result is what I like to refer to as a “hurray, Brooklyn” pic. Hope you’re in similar spirits today. Go outside!

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introducing: a broad

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  • cassette tape top: thrifted at Dolly Python, a vintage shop in Dallas
  • vintage blazer: hand-me down from my grandmother
  • sneakers: Puma
  • track pants: Gift from a friend
  • earrings: Sam Moon

Name: Chelsea Upton

Location: Dallas, TX

Occupation: I’m the Music Director at Radio UTD, the student-run radio station at the University of Texas at Dallas, and a blogger/mixtape maker at Not A Neophyte, a blog that focuses on women and queer musicians. Other than that, I do a lot of things, including eating canned soup and setting my kitchen on fire. I like writing, but I mostly like writing fiction. I would like to write a fantasy book someday. That’s my  fantasy. (Also I just really like dragons.)

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What informs/inspires your style? Most of my clothes are hand-me-downs from my grandmother, who was a very flashy lady back in the 1960s. So when people ask about my clothes I would just usually say that it’s a combination of grandma/aunt style. Outside of that I’m really into Robyn and the things she wears.

All time number one favorite thing to wear: I have this pair of overalls that I probably won’t ever stop wearing. There is something very, very satisfying about hearing people say “I like your overalls,” as if they’re admitting to a fetish.

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Current non-fashion obsession: I have a thing for Jeff Goldblum. I had business cards made (And by that I mean, I made business cards with Microsoft Paint) with his face on it. Someday I would like to have an impressive amount of Jeff Goldblum memorabilia that I can show off during parties. Probably not my own parties, but I would bring that memorabilia to other peoples parties just to one-up them for throwing a party.

What’s something you’ve been thinking about a lot lately? I’m about to graduate from college, and I’ve been thinking a lot about where to move on from here. It’s scary and I’m terrified, mostly because I worry that I’ll end up somewhere with people that I can’t identify with. Being a weird girl in Dallas has been kind of tough, because you have to look that much harder to find those special people that also feel alienated. When you do, though, it means the world.

What helps you feel confidence about your body, style, and general sense of self? To be candid, my predilection for outlandish clothing alienated me from a lot of people when I was younger, because in small town Oklahoma and Texas I was perceived as being absurd (to put it kindly). Growing up was really the best thing I could do (it’s the best thing anyone can do!), not just because I stopped caring if someone was snickering at my patterned cut-off shorts, but because I was able to create friendships with other women that were very validating for me.

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What’s it mean to be a Broad? Being someone that you like! It sounds way more simple than it is. You need to like yourself and set that example for other women. You need to get rid of that idea that you can’t make mistakes, or that you’re worthwhile only when other girls are not.

End note: I know Chelsea because we both work in college radio. Today she wrote a great piece about the brodeo that is the entire music industry. Read it. Actually, her whole blog has a focus on women and queer musicians, and I can’t wait to see what she does next.

Femme is, in part, about femme friendships. Femmes are people who see another feminine person and purposefully ignore the culturally prescribed girl hate and learn to say, ”God, you are beautiful and I want to be your friend,” rather than, “She’s so much prettier than me, I hate her.” My femme friendships are a mutual celebration of our brilliance, beauty, strength, power, heart and soul. Ultimately feminist, we heal through loving each other in a world that teaches us to mistrust each other.